Eric Ruiz Tells His Coming Out Story With Courage
Last week, we had the opportunity to interview Eric Ruiz, writer & producer of the film “Just Be You”, a courageous personal story of Eric’s journey to stand in the truth of his identity, and encourage other LGBT youth to do the same.
In light of recent media attention on the topic of school bullying, especially bullying against LGBT youth, we wanted to hear more from Eric about his experiences and to hear whether he had any additional thoughts to share. Here’s what Eric had to say:
Adobe Youth Voices (AYV): When you decided to make this film, were you concerned about potential repercussions if your family saw it? Or anyone else’s reactions?
Eric Ruiz (ER): Yes, I was scared at first to see the reaction of others. When the idea of the video was mentioned by Peter Pheap, initially my response was no. But Peter convinced me to consider the idea. He wanted me to think of the other youth I could help.
AYV: Have you received feedback from friends or your community on the film you created?
ER: The feedback has been positive. My friends and family believe I am brave for telling my story. Through a video project, my story is powerful and it’s not just my story, others can share the story, as well. It is our story and whoever wants to use it, as a foundation for helping them be honest with themselves, they can.
AYV: What do you have to say about the recent media attention on the issues of bullying, especially against LGBT youth?
ER: It’s ridiculous. Its really sad that the LGBT community is afraid of being bullied. It shouldn’t be this way because we are all the same. These actions have prevented those interested in “coming out” from doing so. I had no idea that after all this time, this country has not evolved into accepting the differences among each other, while embracing the similarities.
I have rights and I want the same treatment of heterosexual people. This bullying has to come to a cease. Initially, I was afraid to be honest, but I can face it now with pride. Those who have a problem with me, have a problem with themselves. I no longer operate with a victim’s mentality. This video has helped me develop into the loving individual that I have grown to be. People should be allowed to be themselves without consequence.
AYV: What are you currently working on, and what are your plans for the future?
ER: I’m currently employed by the Boys & Girls Club of the Peninsula, while I am in college.
My plans for the future are to become a professional photographer and study interior design. I love trying new things. One day I will be successful, this video was just a peek into what’s to come from me.
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Adobe Youth Voices is proud to have helped Eric take this courageous step and make his voice heard, and we look forward to seeing Eric step into his future with pride & confidence!
Stacey Long
Program Manager
Adobe Youth Voices

